my “mum” identity crisis & i need your help.

After I became a mum, i asked myself over and over, “is this all there is? was being a mum the only thing i am meant to do with my life?” i seriously struggled with my identity in this time.. i didn’t want to make friends with other parents in coffee groups just discussing my […]

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why breast was not best for us

First of all, shout out to my son for being the cutest sleeping kid ever :P. I feel like this is a subject a lot of people shy away from because it always seems controversial especially on the internet where people say what they want and always have to be right,  but I wanted to […]

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my silent loss. 

1 in 4 women will experience a miscarriage. over the past 24 hours, I have tried to search for the perfect words to describe this part of my life, making sure not to leave anything out. but it wasn’t a perfect situation anyway, so I am just gonna run it. I was 21 years old […]

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the things I wish I knew then. 

the things i wish they told me before and when i became a parent it will take at least a couple of months to feel like yourself again. your baby will cry sometimes, just cause they can. you are not doing anything wrong. going without sleep is hard, but you will surprised how much you […]

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