The other day i was thinking that i think it was time for me to finally go through my different social media outlets, have a really good clean out, and say bye to those who are not giving me some value to my life.
Some people are just toxic people behind the screen, and they vibe off people coming to their page and being miserable, right along with em. ever notice how if all of a sudden you come across someone or something you don’t like on social media and your mood or vibe just goes down? yeah well, me too.
I admit, scrolling through my Facebook memories, *cringe omg, cringe!* i can’t believe (well, i kinda can..) the absolute RUBBISH i use to post for the WWW to see.. it is actually embarrassing. i am sorry if i had ever contributed to someone else’s mood change, and while i say “you choose how you feel”, sometimes you don’t always think of that when you are 18 and love a good drama.
I don’t think everyone’s intentions on social media are bad that appear to be, i mean, when i was posting that BS, i wasn’t thinking that i was making others feel like shit when they would read it, and maybe they didn’t, (infact, i hope they just laughed at how ridiculous i was lol) but if its majority of the time – BS that makes you feel drained – its time to say byeeee!
I am writing this post in the hopes maybe you will do the same, have a clean out. every time you log onto Facebook and you are being bombarded with stuff that isn’t positive and doesn’t make you feel good (not suggesting everything is always peaches, cause there is serious stuff that needs to be discussed, but the beauty of social media is that you CHOOSE what you do and don’t see ..just saying) – replace it with something that you enjoy reading and that lifts your spirits. even if you don’t think your conscious mind is picking up on this stuff, your subconscious mind could be.
I like to follow people who want to give me a distraction and laugh for 5 minutes. i like to follow people who post to inspire with cute quote images. i like to follow people who are humble but have mad make up skills. i like to follow people in the fitness industry who want to help others.
I want to know – who do you like to follow and why?
Today is an actual house cleaning day for me too… 😩 better go get my shit sorted and just do it!